girls in white dresses

i am reading a decent trashy novel at moment about a group of friends who are on the later side on 20 and their disasters with relationships from needy political geeks to nasty abusive men. i think i am enjoying it because there is much to relate to and makes me feel better about my own relationship status and horizon. a good friend of ours told me to read a blog post on stuff.co.nz about how to be single at a wedding...... wear something bright, don't get drunk and dance, dance, dance. you have no one to embarrass but yourself. sometimes i wonder what it would be like to be alone or 'on my own' for the rest of my life...would i become a crazy cat woman or would i have a little cottage with a big garden or a workaholic with nothing but work. who can tell, i can't. i think the garden is the nicest one of the three.